Art and Understanding Parenting and Importance and reasons behind it.
Now a days parents are busy with their job and over-scheduled and thigh work targets in their daily work.
Due to this lot of behavioral patterns and changes have started taking place in children. The gap between parents and children are widening.
Parents don’t get time to pay attention towards children and if we go to see the other side of the scenario then; children are stuck up with digital gadgets like playing games on mobiles phones or watching movies.
Children often do not come up with complaints; saying that parents are not paying attention to them but they try to patch up with some other activities . What more is; we as parents feel that we have done everything which was possible for our children by giving money for education in school and colleges and institutions. Giving them freedom and liberty.
What is lacking behind is we don’t understand their psychological stress they are carrying, their mental setup and also their hidden potentials and their skills.
What we have to give them is correct guidance, ample time, understand their emotions and help build up their confidence level, give them courage and show them correct path of success, train them for their skills and hidden potentials within them which in long term will help them some where or the other.
Every child is a boon to their parents in reality. Children need to understand and accept the truth that today they are children, and there was a time when their parents were also children once upon a time and in the upcoming future a time will also come when they will also have to play the role of good parents and grandparents.
This is not a rule, but this is the truth of life . Current parents dedicate their entire life for children and children should also learn from their existing parents to play the role of being good parents and grandparents when they grow up.
Currently parents need to understand the mental makeup as well as shortcomings in their children and how they can fill in those gaps.
Children get satisfied very fast. You should dedicate and give ample time and attention to them. You should not compare your child with other children.
You can take them for outings, for adventure tours, make them aware of the role and importance of mother nature and also of our planet and its survival.
Importance of culture in day to day life has a great impact on children. It plays an important role in nurturing a child. How you nurture is like a tiffin box for the upcoming generation.
Only schooling, education and scoring well in different subjects and ranking 1st is not the end for any child. Even just selecting the best and top most institute or college is not the end of parenting and responsibility towards your child.
Money cannot buy love and affection.
Money cannot buy a mother or father absent in the life of any child
Money cannot buy emotions.
Money cannot bridge the gap between parents and children.
Money cannot buy peace
Money cannot heal the hurt caused to a child.
Money cannot patch up the emotions